Her blood pressure was a dangerously high 240/140, and test results showed she had zero kidney function. Healthy kidneys are about the size of a fist, but Kandy’s kidneys had shriveled down to the size of grapes.

“The doctor said I showed up to the emergency room at the very end,” Kandy said.

She couldn’t believe it. Sure, she was fatigued, but she attributed that to her two-and-a-half-hour round trip work commute and to raising a toddler. A life-threatening disease certainly never crossed her mind.

Kandy was diagnosed with end-stage IgA nephropathy. (An antibody called immunoglobulin A, or IgA, lodged in Kandy’s kidneys and caused them to shut down.) The day after her trip to St. Charles, Kandy started dialysis. She went to Maumee Bay Dialysis Center every Monday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday for four hours each time. Eventually, she was allowed to drop Thursdays.

She was put on the national transplant waiting list in January 2000. Since those were the days before cell phones, Kandy was given a pager and told she would be contacted that way if a potential match was found.

Kandy was walking through the former Woodville Mall in Northwood on Sunday afternoon, October 8, 2000, when her pager beeped. She spotted a payphone, dug through her purse, found a quarter and called Mark at Life Connection of Ohio. Mark said a kidney was available, and she might be a match. Just as Mark uttered those words, Kandy’s 3-year-old son, John, reached up and hung up the phone! Kandy frantically found another quarter and called Mark back. He said, “You hung up on me. You must not want this kidney very badly!”

Mark told Kandy to get something to eat and head to the University of Toledo Medical Center. She bought a pretzel and water from the Hot Sam stand and drove to the hospital. After a nurse took several vials of blood and completed the admitting paperwork, Kandy was told to go home, not eat or drink for 10 to 12 hours and wait for a call. The call came at 8:30 that night, and she was told the kidney was a match!

The wait was over. Kandy was in shock since she had gone through the same process six other times only to find out those kidneys were not matches for her. This one was meant to be.

Her transplant surgeon, Dr. Rees, gathered all the nurses and residents, and they sang happy birthday to Kandy. They also brought her a chocolate cake – one of the many foods she could not eat while enduring kidney failure. That cake, Oreos, mashed potatoes and bananas were a few of her favorite foods she was able to eat after her new kidney was functioning.

Kandy returned home four days after her transplant, and she has never looked back. The best part of the additional time she has been gifted has been “raising my son and spending time with family and friends.”

Kandy and John lead the epitome of an active life. In addition to volunteering for Life Connection of Ohio, they have gone hiking, biking, rappelling, paintballing and ziplining.

The only thing Kandy knows about her donor is that he was a generous man from Maryland. She wrote a letter to her donor family, but she has not heard back.

“It’s probably the hardest letter I’ve ever written,” Kandy said. “You’re ecstatic, but they are devastated. How do you temper your joy with their sorrow? The biggest thing you’re saying is ‘thank you,’ but how do you thank someone for giving you your life back?”

Kandy’s transplant journey inspired John to register as an organ, eye and tissue donor when he got his driver’s license. He has seen the power of donation firsthand. That Maryland man’s incredible gift has allowed him to have his mom in his life, and he said that is “pretty cool.”